Someday we will…

Someday, we’ll forget the hurt, the reason we cried & who caused us pain. We will finally realize that the secret of being free is not revenge but letting things unfold in their own way & own time..after all, what matters is not the first but the last chapter of our life which shows how well we ran the race…so smile, laugh, forgive, believe and love all over again!  Self confidence is the most attractive quality a person can have. How can anyone see how awesome you are if you can’t see it yourself? You can be the most beautiful person in the world and everybody sees light and rainbows when they look at you, but if you yourself don’t know it, all of that doesn’t even matter. Every second that you spend on doubting your worth, every moment that you use to criticize yourself; is a second of your life wasted, is a moment of your life thrown away. It’s not like you have forever, so don’t waste any of your seconds, don’t throw even one of your moments away. I’m not in search of sanctity, sacredness, purity; these things are found after this life, not in this life; but in this life I search to be completely human: to feel, to give, to take, to laugh, to get lost, to be found, to dance, to love and to lust, to be so human. I am my own biggest critic. Before anyone else has criticized me, I have already criticized myself. But for the rest of my life, I am going to be with me and I don’t want to spend my life with someone who is always critical. So I am going to stop being my own critic. It’s high time that I accept all the great things about me. Always be yourself. Never try to hide who you are, the only shame is to have shame, always stand up for what you believe in. Don’t be afraid to question what others tell you. Never regret the past, it’s a waste of time. There’s a reason for everything; every mistake ,moment of weakness, every terrible thing that’s happened to you. Grow from it & most importantly,do your thing and never apologize for being you.Pain is a pesky part of being human, I’ve learned it feels like a stab wound to the heart, something I wish we could all do without, in our lives here. Pain is a sudden hurt that can’t be escaped. But then I have also learned that because of pain, I can feel the beauty, tenderness, and freedom of healing. Pain feels like a fast stab wound to the heart. But then healing feels like the wind against your face when you are spreading your wings and flying through the air! We may not have wings growing out of our backs, but healing is the closest thing that will give us that wind against our faces

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