Firstly, if you are still struggling to FIND A HUSBAND at an OLD AGE because you are looking for a PERFECT MAN, Something is wrong with you, Sorry to say that but it’s true. Your propaganda magazine tells you that ‘ALL MEN are liars, cheats and useless, but let’s be honest here, which is more likely? Is it that there’s something wrong with about 70 million African men, OR there is something wrong with one African Woman?
Ladies, you certainly will not get into a blissful matrimony if you are always hanging out with your so called girlfriends every night at a beer pa-lour or bar and waiting for a guy to buy you a drink and take you home. Drinking yourself to stupor every Friday and Saturday nights does not exactly make you look like a marriage material. You want a man?. Invest in a good wardrobe, and dress responsibly.
When a man comes to you, smile and be polite, even if he does not fit your mental image of your kind of man. Ladies please, stop going into a relationship with a chip on your shoulder. If you believe all men are bad and all men are Dogs, then it will become a self fulfilling prophesy. No man is perfect!. Even you! You say you can’t marry a blue collar guy like a mechanic or carpenter. If a carpenter was good enough to marry MARY THE MOTHER OF OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST”, why isn’t one good enough for you?.
Do not focus on where a man is now, but look and see where he has the potentials to be.What’s the point of being beaten to a pulp every night by some rich, good looking and non caring man?
Do you want a future where you will sit in a traffic in your car with sunglasses covering your swollen eyes, you look out of the window and see a happy couple holding hands and laughing like newly wedded couple even after 12 years of marriage….Please don’t fake pregnancy or get pregnant to trap him. Sex is not LOVE, and love is not SEX!
Your perfect man is out there, believe, work and pray and you will get him. THINK ABOUT IT!
Reuben Griffiths Bekoe.